Re: Response to cock nazi (artfulgal)
The only reason why I am replying to your "article"
is because you seem to have a serious problem with reading
& interpreting information and I feel that someone
needs to set you straight before you make a complete spectacle
of yourself again in the future.
1) I am not a model nor do I consider myself to be good looking.
In my profile, the word "model" is used in the
sense of "make" or "type", (i.e.
"That model of car", "This is the latest
model of car"). If someone were a model (i.e. poses
in front of a camera for a living), then that person would
say, "I am a model".
The reason why I use the word "model" (in the
sense of "make" or "type") is that
it is part of a joke that runs through the title and entire
first paragraph of my profile. You are the only person who
has not gotten the joke and I honestly do not know whether
it has gone over your head because of intelligence, humour
or misreading of my profile.
If I was a model, then what would I be doing on this site? Also,
would not the "occupation" section of my profile
say, "model"? I do not know what you did with
my profile but you definitely didn't "read"
it.
2) You do not know me, or anything about me- therefore, you
are not in a position to be able to make assumptions about
my personality or thinking processes. By "assumptions",
I refer to statements like:
"It must really bother you that other women that you
find not attractive have preferences" and "probably
consider yourself to be good looking"
You can make as many of these statements as you like when
you've gotten to know me and understand how and what
I really think. Until then, don't embarrass yourself
by pretending to know what's going through my mind.
3) If you are going to criticize my opinion, or state your
own- then by all means do so. "Opinion" does
NOT include random slander and personal insults. Just
because my opinion differs from yours does NOT give you
the right to be disrespectful.
Statements like "You really ought to update your
profile to let people know what an asshole you really are"
have NOTHING to do with your point or the original article
that I wrote. You show your ignorance by stating this irrelevant
personal opinion as if it were fact and has something to
do with your point.
If you feel that I'm an asshole, then by all means say
that: "I feel/I think/In my opinion you are an asshole".
Note the difference. I have no problem with you saying "
I think you have penis envy" as that is YOUR opinion-
not defined, not a fact, is open to debate and varies from
person to person.
Also note that I have not personally insulted or berated
you in this article despite the obnoxious comments that
you made. Tempting as it is to stoop to your level, I'd
rather debate and defend my opinion rather than resort
to petty name calling.
4) As for my comment about beautiful people pairing up with
beautiful people and so on. This is something that I have
slowly come to accept as fact having observed its occurrence
for many years.
I do not live in Hollywood, I live in Ireland and as far removed
as this island is from Hollywood, I constantly see beautiful
people pairing up with beautiful, average with average
and so on. I do not delude myself into thinking that the ugly
duckling can get the swan. Afterall, who's going to
take the time to get to know someone if they're not remotely
interested in them from the start.
I do not like or approve of this emphasis that is placed on
superficial appearances (one of the main reasons for writing
my original cock nazi article) but, as can be seen from the
numerous replies to my article, people seem to support
and like the world as it is- appearance driven and superficial
where personality doesn't matter.
5) As for my supposed "quote" of:
'if you are an unattractive female they should be lucky
if they get any attention at all'
THIS IS NOT MY QUOTE AND HOW DARE YOU INSINUATE THAT I WOULD
SAY SUCH A THING. Those are YOUR words, NOT mine. If you are
going to quote me, THEN QUOTE ME- copy and paste the section
of text EXACTLY as it appears in my article instead of WRITING
your WARPED PERCEPTION or DISTORTED MEMORY of what you
THINK you read.
What I ACTUALLY said was, and I QUOTE:
- "If you look like a super model and are a busty size
8, then by all means go for the 8-10 inchers as you have a good
chance of catching one. Otherwise, GET REAL AND GET OVER
YOURSELVES!!!"
- "if you couldn't get a "hunk" in
real life, then what makes you think that you're going
to get one here?"
- "If you can't get someone who's OUT OF YOUR
LEAGUE in the real world then what's changed here that
going to make it possible?"
Yet again you've completely misinterpreted the words
and how you can TWIST those statements into saying that
unattractive females should be lucky to get any attention
is beyond me. There is NO mention of being lucky or attention
in any of my statements- again, YOUR words NOT mine.
What my statements ACTUALLY say is that if you don't
look like a supermodel, then you'll have to be content
with men who have a penis smaller than 8" and that you
won't be able to get a man who's out of your league,
looks wise, just because you're on the internet.
I'd like you to show me EXACTLY where in those statements
I say that "unattractive female they should be lucky
if they get any attention at all".
Get your facts straight before you go shooting your mouth
off- otherwise you might end up looking like a complete
fool.
6) I am truly & honestly sorry that you found my comments
(real or supposed) offensive. However, I cannot understand
why you have taken it upon yourself to personalise the entire
article against you.
The article was not directed at you, it does not contain
any references to you and I cannot see how it has any relevance
to you- your profile does not seem to display cock nazi behaviour
so how you took such exception to the article is beyond me.
You've even shown that you don't consider yourself
to be part of the cock nazi group- "slamming THESE
women".
Perhaps next time you might try READING the article instead
of distorting and personalising it.
7) Finally, to reply to your opinion that I have penis envy-
my article criticises cock nazis, not penis size. Could
you please explain how criticizing people because they
reduce a person to nothing more that a few inches of flesh
constitutes penis envy?
As for your thinking that slamming these women makes me
look creepy and tacky. If you look at the votes for the article,
you will see that roughly 75% agree with the article, ergo
roughly 75% of the people around here must be creepy, tacky
and assholes... including yourself apparently as your
closing comment ("And for those men that have an average
penis, learn how to use what you have, and the world will
be a better place") indicates that you agree with
my thinking about penis size- strange that...
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